Promotion or the birth? Female dilemma.

<P> Your family planning to postpone the main reason for that? .</ P> <P> the high cost of raising children, the economy too much pressure 25.6% </ P> <P> too much responsibility for raising children, not mentally ready to 22.9% </ P> <P> not do a good job .material for 22.5% </ P> <P> children affected their career 12.4% </ P> <P> tell 11.0% </ P> <P> too much trouble raising children, 5.6% for fear of losing freedom .</ P> <P> survey, 78.9% of those without birth after age 29 intend to say. .Doctors advise that once miss the best child-bearing age, think of smooth, when his mother, the more difficult and dangerous </ P> <P> "married? How old they are?" </ P> <P> if the next .talk to people who are not familiar with chat, you should never stop asking questions - because you get the answer is most likely the other awkward smile. .</ P> <P> Last week, the China Youth Daily Social Investigation Center and the CCTV, "the space-time survey" cooperation, through the implementation of the Sina news channel to a survey (a total of 3357 participants) indicated that due to busy with work, stress and other reasons ., women's marriage and childbearing age were repeatedly postponed. .</ P> <P> survey, were not borne to 2423, accounting for 73.3%. .Of which only 3.4% of people intend to have children before the age of 25, and plans 29 to 33 years old during the pregnancy as high as 57.4%, 21.5% in addition to those who intend to "talk again after 33 years of age." .</ P> <P> the respondents who have parents, the actual child-bearing age are relatively low. .Birth before the age of 25 accounted for 14.1%, 26 to 30 years of age accounted for 55.8% growth; only 24.0% of people are under 30 years of raising a child after the beginning. .</ P> <P> fact, according to China's family planning policy, "the age of first marriage for women after the age of 24 early education for childbearing." .It would appear that the vast majority of survey respondents are in line with childbearing policy. .</ P> <P> "original countries for the legal age of marriage and childbearing, and delayed marriage and childbearing policy is based on the actual situation was developed. Then Early marriage and childbearing are too many people. In fact, for now, especially in urban .in the white-collar workers, the legal age of marriage and child rearing has little practical meaning. "Haidian District, Beijing Civil Affairs Bureau, told reporters that the staff, people who registered for marriage in recent years, more and more older teens. ."In the past, to the age to marry and have children; now, after reading several of the University of twenty, and then stabilize, etc., basically all 'older' the." </ P> <P> may be considered "older", but also .can not be endless "big" down. .A medical expert told the reporter, delayed marriage and childbearing should be in the age range of 25 to 29 years old, because this is the best man of childbearing age. .In accordance with the obstetrics and genetics to say, pregnant women over the age of 30 is called "advanced maternal age", if over 35 years of age, and even become a "high-risk pregnant women." .</ P> <P> "I also know that children should not exceed 30 years of age, but conditions were not ah! Work pressure so much, how can I do? Say, raising children is now so expensive, do not earn a little .save the money, not students ah! "a talk about this, Ms. Gao grievances on a stomach. .This year, she has 32 years of age, is a company's middle managers. .Although many times she and her husband had "a baby" idea, but has been reluctant action. ."It takes several months on maternity leave." She said, "Now my job is just a little improvement, if the top was how to do?" </ P> <P> The survey showed that 92.9% of the affected .respondents agree that "the best woman of reproductive age should be 30 years before" argument, in which 61.8% of people think that age should be 26 to 28 years old. .</ P> <P> and Ms Ko, most miss the best women of reproductive age have their own "difficulties": one, 48.1% said "most worried about the economic and material problems", 22.9% of .people think that "their psychological and mental preparation to do yet, fear of responsibility", 12.4% of people worried that "a child will affect his career." .</ P> <P> owners in a community forum, reporters saw the birth and the child to school on post gains across the board all the way to a long list of hot topics occupy the first few. ."My children were admitted × × school, sponsorship costs 3 million to 8,000 yuan per year, on or not on?" On this topic, users have had intense discussions, the final conclusion is: not a baby .have to pay attention, and we must think carefully of the regeneration. .</ P> <P> "Today's young people is not easy, and compared to our previous competition, pressure. But from another side, is not it also shows their sense of responsibility and affordability weakened?" .A senior media commentators believe that many people were dragged on family planning, the main reason is fear of liability. ."Child marriage and child rearing has begun to enter the age, they used self-centered, set thousands of pet in one, a good session of thirty years that one can often feel like a child." </ P> <P> findings .confirms this view. .The survey found that in the "mental preparation", the 47.2% said they were "the cause of uncertainty, there is no sense of stability", 32.7% said, "feel that they have not grown up, not ready for parenthood." .Reporter also found that many young people even think a "DINK" (double income no children) is also good. .</ P> <P> "mature physically and psychologically still not mature." Obstetrics and Gynecology, deputy director of Peking University First Hospital, YANG Hui-xia that many people want to be when I was younger, "DINK" may have some years and regret .- This is also the leading reason for the increase in older mothers. .For many professional women of childbearing age to it, relationships, age, panic and role conflict, are troubled by their psychological pressure. .However, once missed the best child-bearing age, when the mother think of smooth, it becomes difficult and dangerous </ P>.