How to deal with workplace ten hypocrite.

<P> One encounter "into the privacy of people" who </ P> <P> no one has privacy. .In every human heart, all have one do not want to be violations of the territory. .But some people out of ignorance or out of curiosity, or for ... ... every time you meet, you have to ask, "age of geometry?" "How much revenue?" "Affection for husband and wife?" So outrageous answer .topic. .The teeth teeth though Ling, glib, but I do not know the gist of conversation taboo. .In general, a respect for others, and if they know that certain things are of another's privacy, it will not ask. .On the other hand, know of another's privacy, but why go to interrogators, that is, people who do not know how to respect others. .They may spread right and wrong, can be spread right and wrong, may be quite short flow length. .</ P> <P> trick: the privacy of people who want to explore irrelevant answers </ P> <P> meet the privacy of people who explore, can not have a say one, two, said two. .The privacy of people who deal with exploration, the best is irrelevant answers another way. .If he asks you "Who are you cut the background," you say "boarding of your blessing." .If he asks you "how much money," you say "better than anyone else." .If he asks you "how to pursue his girlfriend," you say, "If you are interested, I'll be more to tell you." .In summary, for each other's questions, is not to answer, but irrelevant answers. .In this case, neither to offend each other, not make each other succeed. .</ P> <P> Second, the experience, "sigh" by </ P> <P> people life skills, and things do nine out of ten. .Some were pessimistic about the future, the conversation we take the initiative, often to their misfortune, distress and anxiety as a topic of conversation. .They are constantly complaining big water, moan and groan after another, so that people listen to is not talking, not listening to no. .If a careful analysis as to who moan and groan about unhappy things, you know, these things are actually very common, not so miserable, but sighed who puts their very, very serious situation. .</ P> <P> trick: For those who moan and groan to energize </ P> <P> to communicate with such people, to give the injection energy. .In the hearts of those who moan and groan, they do not think they have the ability, ambition small, on the contrary, they affirmed their strong hope that other people have a great talent, has an unusual level. .Communicate with them, should be appropriate recognition of his expertise and praised his achievements, to its booming energy injection. .In this case, they will tell you very close, and you really appreciate it. .</ P> <P> three, suffered "non-Taoist" by </ P> <P> "who is right and wrong is right and wrong people." Do not think the people who tell you that right and wrong is your friend. .Taoist non-persons, since in front of you that harm others, will naturally in front of others, that you harm. .They are happy to Taoist right and wrong, is jealous of the reasons for excessive heart, their heart more and more bad luck of others are often anxious, more embarrassment. .Smart people talk with such people is not heart-. .</ P> <P> trick: those of a non-Taoist and over to Deva kings </ P> <P> way away from such people is said to have made any non-topic reflects indifference to let him know ."wrong" retreat. .Of such a person, not to offend. .He said others on the right and wrong, can not agree. .Their verbal communication, hum ha ha, after all, a good way. .Because "Well," "Ha" is a vague language, both non-Taoist who will feel your mature, which makes him feel that the topic of the exchange can not go on, so stop talking, or the conversation toward the healthy development .. .In some cases, it can be said, "Deva kings" is a contempt of Life can not be learned. .</ P> <P> four, suffered "chatter" by </ P> <P> human conversation, people often hate to tell you the kind of long-winded people were endless. .Some people say more, but that is not good. .They will talk about for a whole morning breath, they will talk over all times in a morning. .Not only can they talk about astronomy, geography, gender violations can also be discussed. .They enraptured, expressive. .They are forever, never feel tired. .</ P> <P> trick: The chatter who asked to be clever </ P> <P> chatter who met neither hurt each other feelings, the less of nothing, letting the other side is clever questions. .The first question under the topic, he said some of the problems, such as "What is the formula of fuel missiles?" "" Water Margin "referred to the book total number of men, many girls?" And so on, so he did not know how to answer. .In this way, a few words he can say less, you can also say a few more friends. .Second, ask some questions unrelated to the current topics, such as "Excuse me, what time is it?" "Your glasses look good, would you be comfortable wearing it?" And so on, so that the other person will feel a bit of shock, which .a halt, so that you make time to do some good things..