Eight white-collar office should be noted that the friendship taboo.

<P> Blindly strict demands on themselves in the work of course good, but if too many disagreements with colleagues will be your path to success of the reef, quite a lot. .Therefore, no one is willing to become popular without the "hate worms." .The following is a mirror, please look for according to whether inadvertently guilty of the forbidden. .</ P> <P> 1, reveal secrets </ P> <P> the so-called secret, of course, with some ulterior or unwilling to make public the hidden reason, based on the trust of friends, or to .demonstrate their trust in friends, come clean will be private. .If you hear someone exposed their privacy, do not ask, only a traitor. .Betrayed the people must have paid chagrin of friendship and trust. .If the secret involves a third party, and even make the situation as things get out of hand. .So, whether good or malicious disclosure of secrets, are the Office of friendship taboo. .</ P> <P> 2, alone promoted by </ P> <P> If you're friends first, than the promotion, I am afraid that the friendship was soon changed, because the unequal status of the two men, together with psychological .subtle competition and comparison, the sour taste soon spread out, because the sense of insecurity and inferiority complex will also be fermented out mischief. .Of course, no one would take into account the feelings of friends to give up the opportunities for promotion, but if it does, remember that understanding each other's feelings, appropriate responses, and to be relieved as far as possible relieve. .</ P> <P> 3, the current guy who </ P> <P> conditions are good friends among men is the most severe test, if the guy on one of them among friends, said a good impression, it is difficult not to cause harm. .If they like the same man, it is simply to declare the friendship of the break. .Emotional life of the best independently, in love before the foundation is not solid, even the most intimate friends, and do not go dragging a date with men that are not clear. .Love Do not test, do not yield to the temptation of winning. .</ P> <P> 4, Feiduanliuzhang who </ P> <P> If you are very keen to spread some of vulgar gossip, at least you do not expect other people also interested in listening. .Those who "lack of road in order to attain different" colleagues will sooner or later, you avoid the fear. .With a variety of grapevine even if you temporarily become the star of tea room, but the gossip of a loose-tongued, no one will ever treat you to true. .</ P> <P> 5, poison hearts and minds of those </ P> <P> bitter and angry, these are "poisoning who" were the most significant features. .Although occasionally some "heart to heart," the complaint to build out a number of "office of friendship," the illusion, but complaints will endlessly miserable people around. .Perhaps you complain as a way to open, but it will complain to the end of v. sublimated into anger. .Since you will be surprised that people so unhappy with the status quo, why not just change the environment, far away. .</ P> <P> 6, buttering up the boss who </ P> <P> one if friends like curry favor with the boss, the boss rivalry, often leads to the other party could not understand the impact of emotions. .If you really need to curry favor, to the two similar to curry favor. .Do not do little things in private, let the other doubt your loyalty, friendship or even suspect that your personality, but also worried that usually complain about the boss you will be betrayed, by offering intelligence and climb higher. .Office of the movement in one of the most healthy, is a common criticism of the boss in the back, many of his colleagues because of the "common enemy" and derived from revolutionary feelings, if you secretly are found when the eyes and ears of friendship from finished. .</ P> <P> 7, Gongsibufen who </ P> <P> "businesslike" is also one of friendship killer. .Perhaps one thought, so we better, asked me why so strict? If something happens, it is that I covered. .But the other is thinking: knowing that we are so better, not that difficult for me to make things better for me to explain the above, some cases should not kill the old me! So can not reach a consensus, it will cause a lot of inconvenience and damage, .In particular, errors in the official business of mutual blame the situation would result in injury, particularly one which the company is exposed to punishment, this friendship can no longer recover. .Proposed Office of the friends to find a time line to draw first, Gongsifenming, rather than just thinking to himself: "How do you do?" </ P> <P> 8, asking for a handout who </ P> .Open to borrow money from friends <P> can easily lead to conflicts between friends. .Spoke up but were unable to borrow, will not blame each other mean, I feel as good as usual, the original is just window dressing; was borrowed money will find there the friendship of impurities, but also worry about whether, never to return. .Failure to repay on schedule, was the likely cause offense owe: are so familiar, even with me this trick, too much! Owe money to will be satisfied: this situation is my way, .friend is adversity, and if one day you, like me, bad luck, do not want my hand-phase assistance? blame the family if they add, the friendship can not survive under the pressure. .</ P>.