How to avoid workplace gossip slander.

<P> Maligned by rumors he first entered the flat case of Mary, an Executive Assistant. .Although she is only secondary education, but she do something special efforts, won everyone's favorite. .</ P> <P> marketing manager, Mr. Zhang is a light weight performance and qualifications of the person. .Before long, he found Mary who had an aggressive. .He boldly Mary transferred to the sales department, and is independent of hosting a regional job. .As a result of reasons, they often travel together, eat together, to discuss work. .Probably because too much time together, gradually, the office to spread rumors of their affair. .</ P> <P> Mary does not know at first. .But she felt the eyes of more and more strange people around, and once, an old colleague meaningfully said to her: "Please do not be too exposed edge!" Last resort, Mary went to ask a good colleague Xiaomei .understand. .</ P> <P> Xiaomei to now regret it, should not be on the gossip told Mary. .She remembered that Mary heard her words, was surprised mouth fell open, half-day to speak. .Mary is a stronger person, she can not tolerate no gossip by no basis to continue. .The next day, Mary found the office to spread rumors that favorite "Little Radio", warning her not to speak lightly. .The other party also refused to yield, the results of the two broke up. .</ P> <P> have that it exists then, Mary is often distracted at work. .Zhang she intended and alienation, but the rumors still more the Aegis destroyer. .Desperation, Mary put forward an application for a department. .The results, she was traded to the company's Service Department. .May be due to the patience required by the Department after-sales service and Mary's character is far from fine, just transferred to new jobs soon, she had an argument with the customer. .Originally, this is a mistake at work, but new rumors once they spread. .Some say: "Mary's performance in the sales department before, do not </ P> <P> is out of myself, but to help the busy Manager Zhang. Mary is simply not competent sales job!" Final .This rumor actually affected the service manager, he made the decision to let Mary suspension. .</ P> <P> this about, Mary had arrived in the "head" of the office, the "earnest discussions." .But the manager was adamant, I hope she made a profound self-examination. .Mary and a mouth Nanbian, but anxious Huogong heart. .Since then, no matter who you meet her, have some excuse for their own, want to explain, but also their own names. .However, one can not help her. .Her deteriorating mood, and finally went to the resignation of this step. .</ P> <P> gossip love "sticky" Who </ P> <P> for most office workers, the office, the greatest impact on the morale thing, than to hear with their related "gossip" .. .Some people listened to laugh, some people have this uneasy, nervous breakdown or even sleep at night. .So the office most likely to be knocked down rumors that what people? .Confident people do not: because of their lack of confidence, the evaluation will be overly concerned about others, and may even do something in order to maintain the image of the original do not want to do. .For example, you are reading, others go shopping. .If you do not, someone will say "how do you so hard ah!" You're dismissed in order not accused of "hard", it is possible to go along. .This convergence of people have the mentality, fearing "different" is wrong, fear of "different" would be subjected to demeaning. .Such people have difficulties, it is easy to blame yourself. .Encountered rumors that he would be attributed to whether they too far, and not think of another person's reason. .</ P> <P> eager promotion of people: those who like their personal development will be divided into long-term goals and short-term interests, in order to achieve long-term goals, often at the expense of their own immediate interests. .For example, in order to maintain the image of a broad career as far as possible eliminate the scandal may appear. .Scheming career they are used to calculate the costs and benefits, and thus make a choice. .Such people are often able to maintain the public image of the gentleman, but once people see through their scheming is, rumors will follow. .</ P> <P> rumors limited to the wise </ P> <P> office staff for the excellent results for the upper body will inevitably provoke rumors, because good and mediocre hand in hand, concomitant, outstanding in the total will be subject to large .part of the mediocrity of the combat and exclusion, and rumor is the mediocrity of usual moves, a test effective, time-tested. .So how do handle it with confidence the office gossip? .</ P>.