Monday, December 27, 2010
Relationships in the stealth attack alert.
<P> Many interpersonal relationships are unbalanced, one was in a strong, one side was vulnerable. .Also, very strong side attack, while the party is not allowed to express his vulnerable feelings. .However, once any attack will be angry and want to fight back. .Imbalance in a relationship no matter how, this is no exception. .</ P> <P> However, a serious imbalance in the relationship, the weaker party can not express anger, but did not dare fight back, their conscious and subconscious or even a serious split, do not realize their anger. .</ P> <P> However, anger, once produced, will be looking to vent the export. .Weaker party can not directly express anger, then they will develop a unique way to fight back. .From the sense of point of view, they would never dare go against the strong request of a party, definitely not a party to challenge the will of the strong, powerful attack in the strong side, they stuck to a very, very good. .</ P> <P> However, they will be some inexplicable situation. .Very simple thing, they screw up; very easy promises, they do not trustworthy ... ... In short, they often make some strange errors, so that a strong party rage. .</ P> <P> when the furious, the strong side look as though they were a serious violation like. .</ P> <P> this, it is also vulnerable side fight back, but also deep in the subconscious desire weaker party. .They did not express strong anger, not even with a little anger, but they make some strange mistakes by way of ultimately achieving results, but a strong and direct attack by angry party is no different. .</ P> <P> this psychological mechanism, called a passive attack, is often compared to "stealth attack." .</ P> <P> stealth attack the most haunted place is the family. .</ P> <P> because the relationship between parents and children, as well as the relationship between husband and wife, most likely to lose balance, and parents are most likely to attack the one hand, the name of love children, while the absolute limit their children's back. .</ P> <P> However, no matter how offensive the name of a great time to borrow, there was anger against the child, they had to find a way to vent their anger and fight back. .</ P>.
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