An old saying goes, "man in the world, and beyond. "In foreign companies, as well as career is all kinds of people, and everyone wants to think dance, scattering the talent, win a promotion. However, after all, these people are and harmony, communication and co-operation, in order to better carry out its work, and also spent time working happily. So, how do you do to become a master of communication in the Office?
First, a prerequisite for effective communication is the harmonious atmosphere
Have you seen the fight can be noisy out a good result? emotional, impulsive, completely irrational State, there is no way to solve the problem. In a strange environment (including the stranger, the unknown locations, strange, strange things) and human communication, human protection mechanism automatically starts, the heart does not open, we speak carefully, the person's thinking in such a refined atmosphere and active. How to create a harmonious atmosphere? open a little joke, moods, topics pulling one up, if you can find both sides are interested in the hobby talk better. Laughter, harmonious atmosphere came out. Experiencing emotional conflicts that may wish to hold on to an appointment to talk again. Stop the six-party talks about not talking about a few years.
Second, the way of communication cannot be static
Everyone has an inherent communication habits or communication style or communication preferences. Therefore, you have a number of ways to communicate with the "impossible" person to do the communication routes to world everyone understand your language, not reality. For example, in foreign companies, most of the time you want to communicate in English, if you use your own make sentences with others, communicate with each other do not understand, so you'll have to put it another way to express or can't understand each other forever. Focus on yourself, to change their communication style, try to use different methods to communicate. We can change, but you can change the others, unless the "others" is willing to change.
Third, should give others some space
Communication is not just himself said that it should also be listening to each other's voices. Each person's values are not identical, so the idea of conflict inevitable. Try to listen to each other, from each other's point of view to hear, perhaps also has several reasons. So don't foretell, suppress, power, will only result in a situation of oral heart against. We will only make an unpleasant, communication, we are depressed mood.
4, meaning of communication is to respond
"Quality is too low, simply do not understand what I say." In fact, it is your own quality is too low, there will not be able to understand each other's language to express. The communication aims to form a consensus and understanding. Therefore, the expression of the good and bad, is to understand each other as the only criteria. I love you, I love you, but the other said, not to feel, or someone that you don't love me. Communication with love, not you think clearly, became clear. Communication nor your presentation skills are so good, it is not what you say more, how correctly, communication is no right or wrong, just have no effect. While the effect of determining factor, is the other's response, received much.
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