Career success tips — learn to reject

Successful people are those who dare to tell the truth, we must be good at acceptance, courage to refuse to do a

A real live only his own philosophical without regret.

Helpless accept

Workplace, everyone would have more or less. Sometimes, we will select escape

Avoidance, will choose to hide it, or select the patient, but I refused because, gentle humility so that education

So we did not dare to refuse or reject.

A friend, always help to do something, even a word of thanks is not, it seems that everything is right,

Think is a friend to help, you shouldn't be afraid of suffering, fear of tired, but his own busy almost continuously responding to, each not

Happy to help, really depressed mood.

And to the evaluation of the performance, paid their hard, and the harvest is disproportionate, but think of or

The concern about the work itself, don't care too much.

A chance to know colleagues who own wages of more than 3 times, but we do

But the difference is not big, suddenly doing something no enthusiasm and motivation.

Own work earnestly is responsible, in public forums, those attitudes of strong, good performance in themselves,

So many times it's all going on at wohuo ...

In this way, forever, you do not deny that many unhappy things from you do, you always do,

You should do; and the so-called good thing, it is not you, to always have you, that should not be

Have you!

Courage to refuse

Very often, we fear of harm others, have been hurt yourself. In fact, successful people are

Those who dare to tell the truth, the key is how to say. To do a real, live yourself more magnanimous and

No regrets.

It reminds of a story. Some people go to seek relief from pain, Jackson let him self

Cyclohexyl penetrate. The first day, the master was asked if he realized what he said: I don't know, Zen master would lift the ruler hit him

; The next day, the Buddhist monk asked, he said that they do not know. Zen master to lift heavy ruler and beat him; the third day, he still

So there is no harvest, when the Zen master hands to play, he has stopped. So the Buddhist monk smile: you finally realize the

Reason — refused the pain. Indeed in this way, we can deny the pain in life, although we are powerless to stop

Retaining things to come.

Tell that is always looking for your help, for no one, you also have their own things to do, everyone's time

Is very valuable.

Tell that steal the fruits of your labor, own the work is to be respected.

Tell your leader, you want your own values and achievements, his much work should

And their own positions, salaries and company match. No additional compensation will not accept responsibility for the longer term, unless

There are other worthy of compensation.

Tell the person that unreasonable trouble, this is the work, he also appears similar problems, not

Respect for others to respect society rejects others, is a form of self-defense, self-esteem and calm, it is a kind of will

And confidence, and is also an open-minded and wise. Learn how to refuse to live a true understanding.

Good denial

Courage to refuse, but we have refused to be good at, it is necessary to be able to deny others, are not allowed to engage each other too embarrassed

And embarrassed. Once you are sure you want to deny the other, the mind will resolutely, but denied methods do not too rigid.

With an Australian friend A link because a friend's child B also abroad, hope that they

Links to more leisure, mutual care. It's almost that time friends A one minute time thinking about it, you reply to me

This enthusiasm moved me, but I don't want to know him. Because this is not a national of Australia, by

Is your own effort, I have my own circle of friends, but most afraid of and not a Word to find words to strangers. The

To, you must tell B, wherever you want to strengthen the independence, regardless of who care, and finally have to depend on one's own efforts

. A clear denial of a B, but he says his own reasons, but also want to help B, won't let him too

On the spot. This denial can be said to be very strong, but also very true. Denial is not equal to unfriendly or

Is arbitrary, but a personality and individuality of the perfect combination.