Seeing your co-workers promoted by a promotion, a raise in pay, you are left intact. What's going on? maybe you therefore understand and even rumblings. So, have you ever thought why from itself to find?, of course, the case fell on your head, not necessarily your ability, but your personal relationships. If your relationship is not good, you won't, this is cruel fact. For future development, please carefully read the following points, which is probably why you come to a halt:
Stupid thing 1: do you think we do a good job in the job, it is enough
Wrong! work capacity, efficiency, reliable, and even your academic qualifications will not be a single indicator, nor is the most important. Whether you are a teacher, nurse, accounting or the Secretary, the work environment is itself a person, each person has every one seems to care matters and priorities, learn how to adjust with your boss or colleagues, this is the so-called company politics (political). No matter how you were angry, you in the future of the company, from how to face the TIFFs mouth to display stationery, to big things like this, who's more take a day off.
Stupid thing 2: you don't care about rumors
Wrong! rumors is company's life, all the signs from the beginning, the looming to former signs of wind direction, even though the rumour details are incorrect, but there's no smoke without fire, you can assume that some clues. For example, were seen recently your company met with the General Manager of the rival, (someone said not at least wait until there are three people know about it, if you hurry to sent a message to tell you people know that you put out, the next time you hear the news). However sometimes you have to join the Grapevine, a pair of no interest to face will let people later spread to skip you. The principle is that you are interested in listening to, but don't let everyone who you are a radio station.
Stupid thing 3: do you think my colleagues can be a friend and friend
Wrong! a few months off, Ling on your housework clearly that she heard your MOM talk on phone, know you have boyfriend Nick, even your physiological cycle she knows, plus your inseparable (working time), lunch-time is usually when you speak your mind. It all makes you feel able to so intimate friend is really good. But if after three months, you promoted a raise, and Ling, coincidentally, you become her boss. At this point, you want to be your best friend, she should be pleased for you, I hope so. However, power and money often change many people's ideas, especially in relation to a person's future. If XL no longer is your friend, you may start to worry about your past revealed the secret of all. Of course, the most unfortunate outcome is evolving into Les Evans Foundation and Linda Cui Bo, your talk was recorded.
Stupid things 4: you ignore despise your enemies
Wrong!, most people think that a friend gave us the greatest support, the enemy attempt to harm us, false to not fabricated. In fact, friends, good for you, protect you, your joke even nasty they will say funny. On the contrary, your enemies wanted to catch you in saying this, you're wrong, they'll blame, not retained, they attack you on the most vulnerable places--friends will never appear. Therefore, to face up to the enemy eye, the good opportunity to let you be patched armour, and the importance of reinforcing the shortcomings, the next time they come again, you have presence, ready.
Stupid thing 5: you often very explicit shoot bosses
Wrong! some boss would like to hear the message of all the angles, but the majority of managers are not, they are ordinary people. In other words, they would rather hear the good news is bad news, hey! that's correct entertainment, flattering sycophantic? more or less the same, only the difference between techniques and mind: the Manager you today look so young, so it is obvious that the boss is not a fool, you ignorant with conscience he/she can hear it. You want to find out he/she's really let you admire, and timely praise, just like your parents, especially your room is clean, when you full time school teacher praised you as well. "Manager, your handling of yesterday, so we can put the task smoothly, thanks to you to go". You see, no beats in horse legs, then you are sure to shun.
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