Tips to deal with workplace Nanzhengnvdou.

<P> [Oxford.] News: In general, the office is always a world of gender, both male and female. .The ancients said: "The men and women give and accept not pro." .Gender differences in today's increasingly blurred, phrase old saying seems a bit pedantic, but the exchanges between men and women can not say there is still a "degree" of the problem. .Moreover, the office will not only heterosexual contacts between the sexes is much, because whether it is between the upper and lower levels Ye Hao, Ye Hao colleagues, communication itself is also mixed with the contents of the interests of some of the work to bring the relationship .not so easy to deal with. .</ P> <P> to remind you not to deal with the relationship of the opposite sex in the office too casual. .Once handled properly, will not only ruin your own reputation, influence the relationship between colleagues, and even got to ruin your reputation, wives and children! .The following describes the main contact between men and women in the office some of my colleagues should pay attention to, in principle, after reading, I believe you can in the office of the gender world to cope. .</ P> <P> ● public and private should be clear </ P> <P> for men </ P> <P> manufacturing Taosexinwen in the office of men, especially men in positions is very .wise. .On the one hand, it would seriously affect their upper and lower class in the company's image. .</ P> <P> weekday if you are not familiar with a female colleague, that want to take the initiative to date you, you have to be carefully considered. .Woman's feelings are usually cultured, if you enjoy, why not her usually said that? Reason for this sudden offer the greatest possibility is mixed with deliberate. .That is, she may for their own self-interest may also be ordered to you paracentesis certain information, or to a good relationship, as the bridge of the future, if you have the same purpose, may wish to sacrifice a weekend to deal with her or else to avoid .of the guitar. .</ P> <P> for women </ P> <P> the man in charge of a re-dedication, contact the secretary's time is often with his wife than the time to spend even longer. .Is the so-called soon fell in love, the most natural. .If your boss is a married bachelor, of course ideal. .But if he is a married person, but due to frequent contact between work, took the opportunity to consort secretary, would like to enjoy the blessing affair, and that as his subordinates, will very mindful of. .</ P> <P> work, personal feelings, including once joined, will make the boss subordinate relationship between the two sides deteriorated arranges the not so smooth. .Women marry late or even missed because of temporary sanity and his life, is not worth it. .</ P> <P> if male colleagues would like to invite you to spend the weekend, please analyze. .There are two possible, one would like to pursue you, but do not want to spend too much time, simply straight to the point, this fall is easy to do, all I mean to see you, promise or not, depends on your feelings for him. .</ P> <P> Another possibility is that you are using. .Men like to pursue a better President for the gambling, so please pay attention to the people do on your attitude and his behavior, if there is no travel, a bad reputation to persuade you to tell him: "I have about a boyfriend. ."</ P> <P> ● men and women should not </ P> <P> modern professional women in jobs has been on par with men, but it does not mean that everything should be like men. .Normal men and women, there is always started from the trivial, and the "preventive measure" very important. .</ P> <P> male staff of many companies, like after work similar to the entertainment, and other traffic when less crowded home, if you are invited female peers, how to do? .</ P> <P> advise you should avoid drinking after work and men separately, unless the person has and to establish a good business friendship, and do you know this person will respect the relationship between the two. .</ P> <P> If these people of high positions, and power, and you want to deal with them, then back to a more relaxed time may wish to inquire about their company's developments, exchange of experience, for their own .paving, however, with them, please note two things: It is best to go with a group of people, not fierce drinking. .</ P> <P> not drink alcohol purely personal preferences, not to have embarrassed the psychological, do not drink, you can call soft drinks or cocktails. .Moreover, both men and women, not necessarily to drink to get recognition. .To a man I respect you and accept you, please put your work and professional attitude, rather than show you better than their capacity for liquor. .Drinking occasions, for career women who can be a dangerous place, because the latter is drunk and easy to irrational and even cause conflict between the language or misconduct, the usual image of the damage completely. .</ P> <P> ● true, false, may see the </ P> <P> Popular said: "defenses can not do without," said the kindness of your opposite sex, whether you must admire? Particularly in an office .This place, maybe the other party is another attempt! .For example, the person may have gotten a special task was very difficult, knowing your experience in this area is known, so under the guise of pull you closer, the purpose is to take advantage of you help him. .</ P> <P> Originally, the help of happiness, but no one willing to be used, so the best strategy is to reject the other's intentions. .So as to avoid "owed" his situation, forced by the use of the future. .Another possibility is that someone deliberately let their male colleagues to draw you with affection, to strengthen their their camp. .This is undoubtedly a small part of power struggle, not involved! .</ P> <P> male colleagues even if you really soon fell in love, go for endless, the implementation of the pursuit of an offensive launched, but advise you to refrain from the development of love in the office. .Because it will bring too many adverse consequences, can be avoided! .Most women have the following trouble: when is the official number of colleagues together with the opposite sex, and therefore, some peach issues must be faced, but be very careful in order to avoid sequelae. .</ P> <P> some men sat in the office on weekdays. .Gentleman of female colleagues also full, but once in the field, they might look like another deputy, hoping to "good" machine, wipe your hand oil. .</ P> <P> Since it is a colleague, of course, can not keep a straight face as opposed to the other party to advise you encounter a presumptuous request, or attempt to jump the track, the best way is to play the fool. .For example, working all day, with the progress you and your male colleagues after dinner, he proposed that the Chinese Communists to buy a bottle of wine to drink in the room to break up the monotony gas, you can smile: "Better go to the bar, because I want a cup of fruit juice ., you can chat with you. 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