Career men and women: Why do you live boring?.

<P> We live in a bizarre world, the temptation to colorful, too many choices, the possibility of too many people are losing the edge. .In such a world, easy to breed two kinds of people, a people that can lift their appetite and interest in things too much, want to do things all day, but that did this had to put that piece, do not .Which thing to understand in the end the most important of their own. .</ P> <P> another people? .Almost nothing is something that can really lift your appetite. .You see him busy all day long, things are plenty, but also a company, but also entertainment, but also to coax his wife, but also to accompany Valentine, the surface looks, it seems to have everything, not missing anything, but he .but is not happy, I feel nothing is really willing to do their own, which is always a lot of things are hanging their appetite can not afford to do anything boring. .</ P> <P> target where forfeiture of the classic quotes </ P> <P> busy, something I'll call you ha. .</ P> <P> not, tomorrow will be, will never come back. .</ P> <P> with his wife worth it? .</ P> <P> know how much a child with it? .</ P> <P> I am a hard work life, not to mention the. .</ P> <P> all the people in the request to me, alas. .</ P> <P> can not leave me alone? .</ P> <P> you say this make sense? .</ P> <P> target performance where forfeiture is only </ P> <P> labor of a group of bored gamblers </ P> <P> said they did not gamble too much. .Such goals where forfeiture is like wearing a very glamorous casino customers, they seem to have everything, the left guard, right there is beauty, go out there car, burglary with security. .But you can see, they have it all are cold. .Because they really do not know how these things in the end of their important, or they feel that these are of course, is his years of struggle in exchange for like a day, so there can be no treasure. .</ P> <P> but their favorite, or the toil of the day life and gambling. .At this point, you will see them shining eyes, counting the money there is a pride and sense of honor. .Yes, these goals forfeiture is only too real, I hope more and more money, the business grew and grew, more and more beauty, fame is growing. .But you will find that they really have a future, but this is not all there is a conscious sense of revulsion. .</ P> <P> lover to call him back he snappily sentence: "I'm busy, call you later." Homework ask the child to find him, he snappily replied: "do class .What to go, they want to be. "lady is not that move him, and he always thought, with his wife this thing worth it? .Is obtained by his wife; kids worth it? .The child is the greatest consumables; business? .Traversing this route, numerous calls, what reminder reminder, no I will not die, this make sense? .</ P> <P> they are doing so many things every day, but can not find the behavior of real value and motivation, it seems that everything is external and imposed upon him in the press, let him struggling to cope. .His pursuit of fame and fortune, but fame does not give him pleasure, but it even more trouble, he did not have time to enjoy the fruits of life. .</ P> <P> target where forfeiture is real </ P> <P> a foot inflatable ball too </ P> <P> above, psychologists have given a term, that is the goal lost. .Target where forfeiture is not depression, their emotions are not so low, not low self-esteem. .Moreover, they also all day high morale, motivation or want to do great things, if depression is like a deflated balloon, that power did not; so, the target of people who lose too much more like a gas sufficient enough .the ball, too much internal pressure, power is adequate, but nowhere to release, charge the charge was going to explode, but also not what life is really fun. .</ P> <P> inflation target forfeiture is only like to play and charge of the game, you see really a lot of his activities, all day long here, go shopping, walk there, a lot of friends, all sides have to each other drink and a laugh, .be good fun. .His energetic, wide network of people, Ye Hao mind that is not the kind of dull and numb. .</ P> <P> target forfeiture is only thinking of the blind spot </ P> <P> he is the king, others are cumbersome </ P> <P> target where forfeiture is brought up to know that the man is a king to conquer the world, you can " .what I want, I want to be something. " .They have a small seed of this ambition. .They are not used to waste time on some of the details and small issues, because they were made to go towards "successful life" forward. .Success of these people is that, fans of inspirational learning, their sharp eyes, since that amazing insight. .</ P> <P> they invented a program that is not to waste time on little things in life. .Men should dare to move forward the so-called adventure challenge and not afraid of busy. .They really have a lot of "should" sound, because it is their self-positioning as a man - a successful young men, for some people to imitate, let he became fascinated by the power of the ideal man image. .</ P> <P> then, when they express "I want" to "struggle to go through", they would likely lose a goal state. .Because they do not learn how to enjoy the present life, and always urging to do this do that, so that the behavior of a real gamble to stop, they have a sense of frustration. .</ P> <P> always express themselves in need, most do not understand exactly what people need. .They overestimated their own intelligence and underestimating people's intelligence. .Impatience is this performance. .As others underestimate the value in life, he genuinely difficult to meet the needs of others, it is difficult feel from others to pass through </ P>.