Teach you to understand the deeper meaning of my colleagues.

<P> Life experiences in the workplace a few years, have learned the hypocrisy of civilization, saying "Get out" and "you die" before, we must add "please" and "thank you", so that in case of dialogue, because too .through focus on form, will become unpredictable fantasy, greatly impede communication. .Enhancing Tingfeng identified as the only device of effort, the rivers and lakes as we go walking, to name for oneself in the workplace, also need to understand better the devil in the office dictionary, understand the true meaning of words, then, should we go with self-defense .the best policy. .</ P> <P> Devil Dictionary 1: to wait for others to finish the second half, often it is the truth </ P> <P> Case: Mark is very happy to have a good boss, he will be smiling every case .speaking: Yes, well, awesome. .Mark a recognition of the fledgling, soon would even forget his name in Chinese. .He told his students in the MSN, boasted: Recently, I probably would pay a yo. .</ P> <P> Two weeks later, Mark Marry with the same group for a project to demonstrate the process to the boss when the boss is still smiling nod, and even that good. .Mark happy face not had time to fully expanded, I heard a very sincere tone to Marry, said: Could you give us some advice now, we really need to know what the project insufficient. .Result, the boss points out a few Achilles heel row, Mark is life and life cold sweats. .He did not know, "very good" "good" meaning behind the fact is "not good" and "bad", the real advice is needed after you ask, people would the gift with you, make you more next time .good. .</ P> <P> half of Quotations: </ P> <P> 1, the design feel of your whole group is the best, great artistic talent, but - you have no business sense, it is not doing things .do young artists and less to take this set of aesthetic theory to muddle our advertisers. .</ P> <P> 2, you are a department veteran, toiled, and everyone can see, but - do not rely on the experience of young people, pointing out, too old to work who was kind enough to appreciate your new war .? .</ P> <P> 3, I have always been new light for you, because you really stand out, but - in fact you are playing too little personality, the company emphasis is on equality and fairness, will not have any heterogeneous .special care, then you have to be careful so go friends. .</ P> <P> 4, I did not take offense that you would not mind to have extreme, but - walking workplace loose lips, you are so quick to outraged lip service, it will directly affect your annual appraisal. .</ P> <P> Devil Dictionary 2: Do not be blinded by emotion eyes from the truth, reason was the recent </ P> <P> case: the line was promoted, found that competitors Chie, not as imagined .so difficult, on the contrary, thousands of painted though not enthusiastic positive, or are willing to take the initiative to meet with her. .The line moved, sectoral development plans will be attracted to the truth. .Not that no one warned her, but believe their eyes trip, a person's face does not lie every day, thousands of painting competition after losing the job, can not hide the frustration, but also to put on a calm way, this mood .trip inspired all sympathy. .Sometimes painted in overtime when thousands of weary grumbling loudly: Oh, it is too hard, it is better to quit the count. .The line is only to comfort her: Well, wait until the end of the quarter there will be bonus. .</ P> <P> month later, drawing thousands of applications submitted directly to the big boss of the resignation, the Bank called in to explain, she confused: I was listening to her complain ah, but that is interrupted by the boss ... ... .Her words: Chie said to have repeatedly told you to leave things the oral presentation, but you did not like me that now she has been digging in the past made head of a rival! .</ P> <P> too believe that things are surface phenomena, from others to speculate on the emotional moment of his behavior, there it is. .</ P> <P> emotional Quotations </ P> <P> 1, anger: by the boss too outrageous, so how can Sally I'll take him off work early to go to entertain clients. .- Do not think that he is really unfair treatment by the fact his heart secretly pleased with the boss so he can close it. .</ P> <P> 2, HI: Good for you happy, ah, I remember we went into the company, you got a promotion so soon! .- This thing for me is unfair, you simply luck, do not know how many of them dubious reasons. .</ P> <P> 3, worry: so many of the tasks, who can finish ah busy, I am a family population is difficult, with you can not compare a single. .- So that customers or to give me, make me miserable situation than you do? .</ P> <P> 4, sad: to leave the sector I really sorry, I will always remember you in every possible way to help me. .- People who offend me hasten to apologize, or I will make you die ugly. .</ P> <P> Devil Dictionary 3: Behind the kind words, not the corner is a trap </ P> <P> cases: very lucky little love written through the layers of the interview, into this multinational company. .Colleagues, dressed in expensive suits, mouthful fluent in English, at about a few people together to eat French or Japanese cuisine, is not that their white-collar dream life? .Hastened to join a small love into it. .</ P> <P> six months after the reunion, little love is the center of attention late, long hair, bare back dress, so elegant and fashionable a woman, his speech has also been completely different before. .She would say: every day you are this little jacket is so beautiful, is the B version of Chanel's it, you look around a little bit different set of edges. .Said: ah toot you add the salary, too talented, and now they will get 4000, though just does, can it really be a little skill Caixing. .</ P> <P> little love left, no one is willing to rise to say goodbye to her, love is only a small sigh: these people, ah, how the big companies are not learn manners. .</ P> <P> Although a large part of large companies is how to ritual words were false and civilization, but the hypocrisy of this point requires some infuriating to deep breath, not a tell you the letter I will happy to accept other people, .people do not have this obligation. .</ P> <P> honey Quotations: </ P> <P> 1, your report do a perfect job, just a few small grammatical errors. .</ P> <P> true meaning: Did you thinking, and even kindergarten level of low-level offenders such errors? .</ P> <P> 2, you are a very nice person, with the cooperation of the person you say you are the character, there's some small problem can not deny the outstanding advantages. .</ P> <P> real meaning: you are no principles, is abuse of a good man, people say hello does not mean you like the results. .</ P> <P> 3, to work with you really can learn a lot, especially in interpersonal exchanges, but also catch up no matter how hard I had. .</ P> <P> real meaning: your thinking I did to those little dismissive, do not think I really will listen to your "advice." .</ P> <P> 4, you and Mary are different, she is more careful you compare the hearty, if I'm your friend I will appreciate your personality. .</ P> <P> real meaning: Unfortunately I'm just your colleagues, not your friend, God knows what kind of friend who can not stand you Dalie Lie temper. .</ P> <P> 5, your ideas are always creative, unconventional, and I want to be more suitable for you freelancers. .</ P> <P> real meaning: I can no longer tolerate your strange idea, pack up and leave quickly. .</ P> <P> devil dictionary should Tips: </ P> <P> 1, a stable psychological </ P> <P> not beat around the bush for a few words to stimulate their emotions, using language offensive .what a person is tangible evidence is difficult to defend themselves right from wrong. .If you feel that people are so anti, it is better to laugh it off or ignored. .</ P> <P> 2, exercise their logical thinking </ P> <P> a lot of irony if in fact you are vulnerable, if it is to be back in time, we must seize the crucial point, a strike .then, do not fall into a long war of words a waste of time. .But the best way to always be no less serious to nothing. .</ P> <P> 3, has a clear right and wrong </ P> <P> naive makes you believe in those old fox snake in the grass, will make you miss too sophisticated real friends, so try not to judge based on fragmentary .a person's human, objective and low-key attitude is the right career. .</ P> <P> 4, so that the people around you enough to know </ P> <P> let them know that silence is not cowardice, tolerance is not a retreat, you are not good for humans to comment on the President, you just .have their own manners and principles, and if you really do too much, the consequences will be very serious. .This is to allow you to avoid an effective way to open the devil dictionary. .</ P>.